…..Continued
Whilst we are considering a set format for marriage profile, we need to consider in accounts different requirement of both sides i.e. Groom Side requirements and understanding about Bride and Bride’s Family. We need to consider the requirements/ understanding of both sides for each other. Whilst I was discussing the same issue at a forum each one in the audience were agree to consider and analyze requirements for both sides. So here again I am considering it one after another.
Lets’s take a condition where a prospective Groom’s family is looking for bride. In general whilst any prospective groom’s family look for prospective bride they first want to understand her family background, society standard, Synchronization and adaptability with groom’s family culture at very initial level. Post this initial understanding they want to dig into the next level of understanding i.e. understanding about prospective bride itself. Her appearance, height, weight, education, employment etc.
Continued……..
Posted in General, Gotra, Matrimony, Matrimony, Notice | Tagged caste, culture, Indian Matrimonials, Indian Society, Marriage, marriage broker, marriage bureau, online matrimonial, religion, shaadi, vivah, waytomaarige.com, waytomarriage.com | After searching need of our user we find the list of gotra for baghel samaj.
* Bamania
* Tomar
* Segar
* Sisodia
* Becholia
* Katrya
* Kachwaha
* Ahir
* Bhindwar
* Chandel
* Spah
* Kokende
* Rotella
* Hiranwar
* Baniaa
* Thanmbar
* Fulsungha
* Raraya
* Reyar
* Mohaniya
* Nigote
* padariya
* Sriswar
* Pindwar/Pandwar
* Kunwar
Dear Readers
Imagine a candidate going for job interview, dressed in formal wears, nicely combed hairs, polished black shoes and carrying a well written resume highlighting the experience and other details for the candidate in a set format, which will help recruiter to shortlist the candidate for Job and make the candidate fit for job. Now if we consider the situation for marriage instead of job, you will hardly find out any set format like we do have for jobs i.e. Fresher, Domain Knowledge Experts etc.
While pointing for a set format or guidelines to write a profile for marriage this would be injustice to not to mention that in India whilst there are N numbers of Casts, Sub-casts, Communities etc. it is not an easy job to define a format which could be accepted universally by all. However some general guidelines could be framed to write a profile for marriage on the basis of research that what shall be the essentials details to include while writing a profile for marriage…………….. Continued..
Kalim Ahmed Lohar
Posted in General, Matrimony, Matrimony, Notice | Tagged caste, culture, Indian Matrimonials, Indian Society, Marriage, marriage broker, marriage bureau, online matrimonial, religion, shaadi, vivah, waytomaarige.com, waytomarriage.com | It seems that society is a group of individuals where Indian vedas oppose it and defines it as FAMILY (Kulam), the basic unit and considers family as more important than the individual.
In a culture where family is not hale and hearty i.e collapsing and where individuals are becoming protruding – claiming individual privileges – it will disturb the health of both the individual and society.
What is the basis of this statement?
In any culture where the family interrelation or endurance is not there at the total level the crime rate increases. The society may be economically or significantly be prosperous (like the USA); but there is conflict in the civilization – law and order collapse – this is a problem at macro level. At individual level there will be increase in the psychological problems. More psychiatric doctors required; all indicating individual mental ill-health.
As per Indian Vedas, every family is to be governed by a mature woman. For the existence of the family the most prominent role is by the woman. She is called in Sanskrit language as Kula Sthree or Dharma pathni or Grihinee. Thus the woman has the accountability of keeping the religious activities going in a family.
Three qualities for the Kula Sthree are mentioned below:
i. Love for every member of the family which acts as gum or adhesive – for sticking together.
ii Incredible patience – robustness – for facing the challenges of the unity of the family.
iii. Propensity to sacrifice the individual or personal ambition/interest for the sake of the family well- being. She down plays her personal self-esteem for the cohesiveness of family; in other words, her willingness to voluntarily sacrifice. Sacrifice should be voluntary and not forced. i.e. Enforced sacrifice is distress. Compare fasting and starving. In both you don’t get food and there is anxiety. But starving is enforced whereas fasting is voluntary. In voluntary movement there is elevation and happiness. The difference is in the attitude. The sacrifice is done out of maturity
Posted in General | Tagged bachelor, beliefs, bride, caste, culture, Dharma Patni, education, Grih Laxmi, Indian Matrimonials, Indian Society, Kula Sthree, lagan muhurat, Marriage, Patience, religion | Currently, We only have religion base search. But many people come to us and ask for the caste base search also. So, We are going to start the caste base search on the site. Also, We are going to make the separate link for every caste and community. For example:- we already started http://waytomarriage.com/yadav for the yadav clan. Similar we will do for all community. We are waiting for you feedback or any user specific change you are looking for.
The essential marriage broker comes in two forms: professional and altruistic, who used to be involved in most arranged marriages. At some level, members of society as a whole consider their responsibility to ensure that the proper bride or groom is arranged for someone they know and thus actively solicit and communicate information.
The professional marriage brokers receive honorary compensation as deemed appropriate by parties who benefit from their services. Altruistic marriage brokers consider their work as repayment of their social debt – they are often extended family members, friends, and other well-wishers for the families.
Beginning in 1970, the print matrimonial (requests for suitable match under matrimonial section of classified ads in newspapers and magazines) became popular. Parallel to print matrimonial was the development of “marriage bureau.” A marriage bureau was the creation of professional marriage brokers. A marriage broker, instead of walking from house to house with a huge diary with tucked in photographs, now sat in his/her office accepting registration for prospective brides and grooms. Marriage bureaus are operated similar to ‘staffing companies’ and maintain lists of suitable brides and grooms based on criteria demanded by their clients.
With the Internet boom in India, the concept of a marriage broker walking from door to door is is slowly fading out, and has given way to online matrimonial sites. The first to jump on this bandwagon were owners of marriage bureaus, who converted their paper database into computer one. Internet savvy professional organizations have eliminated the hold of marriage bureaus and now dominate the business of online matrimonials.
Posted in General | Tagged lagan muhurat, Marriage, marriage broker, marriage bureau, matchmaking, online matrimonial, Relationship, shaadi, shubh lagan, soulmate, swaymvar, vivah, waytomaarige.com, waytomarriage.com | All of us know how much difficult is to find a good life partner. Moreover each person decides the way his/her life partner has to be found. Many find their soul mates themselves by courtships. The todays definition of marrying in an arranged manner is to seek advice and service of a friend, parents or and marriage agency. All these requirements are being provided by internet websites these days. These sites are designed keeping in mind the main purpose of finding a compatible life mate, with many similarities and compatibility. Matrimony Websites are designed to securely connect people with similar interests, needs and ambitions. These similarities are varied – religion, beliefs, education, values, culture and work. This connection gives a chance to both to discover each other and understand character traits and viewpoints of their partner.
Posted in General | Tagged beliefs, caste, culture, education, family, love, Marriage, matchmaking, online matrimonial, religion, shaadi, sub cast, vivah, waytomarriage.com | In India, wedding is the biggest event in the family calling forth every possible relation, impassioned sentiment and economic resource.
With the socializing sites like facebook, orkut etc coming up and catching with us so fast, we had started living our lives on internet. Why not the quest for a life partners is on internet? Many people connected to internet are searching their life partners through internet rather than believing that marriages are made in heaven. These sites are free or paid online matrimonial portals providing the various facilities to find your soul mate at the ease of sitting in the room. The process of finding a suitable match for you is very easy and fast through internet. Technically speaking, now marriages are made with the click of mouse instead of in the heaven. Matrimonial sites are a perfect match of technology and tradition.
Earlier relatives, friends and marriage bureaus were the parties involved in finding a perfect partner for marriage. Matrimonial advertisements in print media were also used to seek a good partner. But things are changing very fast as internet has penetrated in Indian masses as more and more people are getting connected with internets. The internet media surpasses the geographical barriers and opens up more efficient ways than the traditional ways for searching your life partner.
In today’s fast paced life marriage websites, or online matrimonial sites provides a platform that bridges the gap of time and distance for prospective brides and grooms. Matrimonial sites are specially popular in India and among Indians settled overseas. Matrimonial sites register users, after which they are able to upload their profile onto a search-able database maintained by the website. Those users looking to find suitors can search the database with customised searches that typically include nationality, age, gender, availability of photograph and often religion, geographic location and caste (mainly for websites based inIndia).
Online Matrimony is an organized web based Matrimonial/Marriage service facilitating wishful young men and women to find their suitable life partners. In India organized marriage services business is worth INR 10 billion. Online Matrimony caters to people spread across the globe to find their suitable partner living in a remote place but matching his/her specific interests and requirements. Given the varied and complex match making process of Indian system that is based on diverse aspects such as Caste, Religion, Economic Standard, Job status, age, height, family background etc., Online Matrimony services have become quite successful. Over the years patrons of these services are going up. This World Wide Web based service has millions of users with millions of dollars business potential.
India has always been rooted in tradition and religious beliefs. Traditional marriage in India depends heavily on tying partners based on certain important characteristics (religion, caste, class, social status, etc.) than a romanticized tying of partners, as is common in much of the Western world. Arranged marriages and marriages within the family has been the usual norm in Indian families. Love marriages are much less common, although this has been drastically changing over the years. The essential marriage broker is a volunteer (person who does introduction between bride’s and groom’s family without any monetary consideration), or a professional, who used to be involved in most arranged marriages, or a combination of a priest and a barber. In the last decade the print matrimonials gained an upper hand. With the internet boom in India, the picture of a marriage broker with a huge diary with tucked-in photographs is slowly phasing out, giving way to a gamut of online matrimonial sites. Indian marriage requirements can, in many cases, be so specific in religion, caste, language, and location needed that the internet suits many potential Indian husbands and wives perfectly. A service provider may use registration profiles to filter preferences and may run several different portals to cater for needs like different languages
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